Detour from money = Craig & I are having a great discussion right now as we travel together about CHARACTER & LEADERSHIP. Here are some thoughts of ours, some are borrowed from Hybels’ Courageous Leadership.
Sometimes leaders are attracted to young leaders because they posses some competency (passion and skills combined) in your organization that you want to build upon. However, I believe that people follow because of your character not your competency. If you start screwing around in the character issues and it goes unchecked (even small things) you loose your foundation for leadership. Lots of people can go out and put something shallow or slick together to draw attention, a following, money or all 3. However, when followers aren’t in it for the money or the fame, what you have left as a true leader is character.
Character comes through in the personal and small transactions in our lives:
- Small truths & lies
what difference does it make to admit small mistakes or errors? I can tell you what difference it makes to me and others — I have not hired and also fired people who lied about the small things because it gave me cause to have serious doubts about whether I could trust them with the big things.
- Work ethic & initiative related items
Do you go the extra mile because you want to make sure that your responsibilities are covered? Do you give your organization more than they paid for in your performance and service or less?
- Conversations
Are you known as someone who builds others up? Do you find the good & excellence in people, bringing out the best of their gifts & talents for the organization? Are you a teacher or a critic?
- Choices that convey moral/spiritual convictions
Where do you spend your time in your off hours? How do you handle yourself with freedom from your normal environments? What do you watch, intake and who do you allow yourself to associate with that bring you down instead of your aim to lift this up? What is the fiber of your make up when you don’t think others are looking?
These are just some samples of small, everyday transactions that define leaders and whether others will be following. A fascinating thing about leading out of character is that it will attract individuals with leadership and talent that is beyond what you posses yourself. In your organization, if you are not leading with character, then you are not leading with anything. You can bribe people through bigger paychecks. You can fill their need to be needed. You can make them cool through association and affiliate fame. But you can not lead them in the direction that Christ wants to go.
To grow and really be seen as a leader among younger associates, come to understand well that your role is NOT just to show them how to do the job and then make sure that they get it done. Posses a bigger view. See yourself first as the example in all things — as the axiom goes, followers will not go to where you have not been, this includes character issues.
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